Hi Reader, Can we talk about one of the most confusing things about libido in your 40s? Maybe desire used to just… show up. Now, you can go days without thinking about sex. Your body may take longer to respond. One week the interest is there, and the next it feels completely MIA. And naturally, the questions start. Is this my hormones?Is this perimenopause?Where did my sex drive go? And if another person is part of the equation, it can become even more loaded. A change in desire can very...